The Husband Swap
Testimonials from Amazon: 5 Stars “I laughed, I cried…” Honestly written in an easy to read, journalistic style that keeps up the pace, this book was hard to put down. I finished it in a day. Read More...
View ArticleMy Old Friend, Jealousy
Jealousy. Enigmatically Challenging. My friend has a new boyfriend who doesn’t want to meet her ex-husband. Not for a second. Not even to say hello, let alone a coffee. He can’t bear the thought of her...
View ArticleIt’s Not Having Your Cake & Eat it
Polyamory Logo… Infinite Love I recently read an article in The Sun, accessible to me here in Sweden since the Facebook app came out (Yes, The Sun, it’s entertaining and a strong barometer of popular...
View ArticlePolyamory as a Path to Bliss
Hearts intersected with infinity symbols traditionally represent polyamory Everyone asks why. Why take the risk of having an open relationship when your last relationship failed? Why take the risk of...
View ArticleWhat’s so Great about Open Relationships Anyway?
Statistics are generally used to justify a position in a debate, so that people can decide on what is ‘right’ and what is ‘wrong’…and in general I dislike this way of presenting information given that...
View ArticleWhen Sexual Attraction Dries Up
I promised I wouldn’t write about it until it was over. Some things are too sensitive and personal even for me. For us. But it is over. Thank God. Every couple has gone through that agonizing dry spell...
View ArticleMoving from Monogamy to Polyamory
An open relationship is a journey…not a destination. I was asked advice by a couple the other day, about how to ‘do’ open relationships as they made their way from monogamy to polyamory. They reminded...
View ArticleA Day in the Life of an Open Relationship
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View ArticleDon’t Lose Your Compassion for Newbies
A very important and interesting post came out on sexgeek’s blog this week entitled the problem with polynormativity. …for those of us who have been practicing polyamory for a while, it’s certainly a...
View ArticleThe First Swinging Party
Another couple – Aidan and Jacinthe - was driving us to the social and as my nerves mounted, Jacinthe gave me her top tip. “Keep your lipstick handy. And use it as an excuse if you can’t say no – just...
View ArticleLove Will Tear Us Apart – How Non-Monogamy Divides the Non-Monogamous
Unfortunately despite all the good intentions, a minority's struggle for acceptance will always create a 'prisoners' dilemma' and this one is no different.
View ArticleI’m think I’m Polyamorous… Or is my marriage just over?
Dear Louloria, If you’d asked me 6 months ago, I would have said that I love 2 men. But now …after months of drama, mistrust, less time with my husband and having the best connection ever with my new...
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